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Please help my heartsbroken and I dont know what to do ASAP

I went out with this by for almost 2 years we hungout almost everyday the first year was amazing the second year was bumpy. We got into a small fight one day and it ended up to be the end of our relationship. We still hangout weve had sex and we act like were together. But its like hes secretly trying to get me jealous hes talking to one of his old good girl friends out of no where and he like never hungout with his friends but he seems to be hanging out with them a lot now. And its like he doesnt try talking to me unless I talk to him first. He said he needs to get his life together school money exc.. and its going to take along time like a year or even two and at the end he said we might get back together but for me not to wait for him but I think its just an excuse. He sends mixed singals. I want him back but I dont know how to go about getting him back because asking him back obviously isnt going to work. So please help me how do I get him to come back to me?

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Shame sorry girl I know it’s rough what you’re going threw and it’s not easy to watch someone you love and care for so much not to be with you, it’s a chest pain that doesn’t want to go away.

You have to break contact with him and having sex afterwards is great fun ,BUT it just makes it worse cause now he still get’s to have you as he pleases which is only pushing you more and more away from each other.

You have to break those bonds and all contact with him just ignore him and move on, (This will make him wonder why you’re doing so well without him). Start flirting with other guys and going out on dates (I know you don’t want to and all you can think about is him).

It’s a healing process that take’s time and it will only take longer if you still have sex with him. make him want you not have his way with you, make him realize what he’s missing out on. (This will only get him interested in you again).

Let him sort out what he needs to sort out if you were meant to be together you will be.

Good luck and start you’re new life.

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