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Fighting with my brothers

I am having a lot of problems with my brothers we fight a lot and I just cannot take it I have just moved in with my dad after 8 years of living with my grandma who always used to beat me and yeah my step brothers knows more about my dad then me I always feel sad and low and I am always made fun of because of my weight even though I only way 120 so what should I do if you have any really good advice please help me being thirteen suck s

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Answer #1

get one of those cameras from walmart, or record the abuse from your webcam. then make copies on a dvdr to hide so you have evidence if anyone tries to destroy it. tell your brothers that they will have to stop also. then turn one of the recordings of the abuse in to your dad. tell him it is depressing you to the point that you want to talk to a counselor. if that doesn’t work, then suggest he get you a room above the garage or something so that you’re away from them but still near home. they can’t come in there and if they are then they should get some harsh punishment. I have three brothers and the oldest are the mean ones, to my mother they still do no wrong. basically my little brother and I had to ride getting picked on and abused out. I got the worst of it and they would even bring friends over to help pick on us. you couldn’t tell my mother that they were evil though. thankfully, I’m not bothered with them much now and I’m very happy. I just stayed far away from them as much as I could. if you can talk to your dad and get a lock for your door if you can’t get a room away from them. good luck

Answer #2

when you said that you and your brothers fight..if they started it don’t say anything or do anything YOU SHOULD BE THE ONE TO STOP IT…and if they didn’t start it then try staying calm..breathe in and out…don’t worry about it..and talk to your dad about how things are going,or a counciler,guardian,etc.

Answer #3

I have to go through that too. Try talking to your dad. Tell him that you don’t like how you are being treated and that you have a right to feel comfortable and happy in your own house. If he doesn’t do anything then you yourself are going to have to talk to your sibs-like it or not if you want this to end. And remember that every family fights. So you will eventually fight again over something. Hope you survive!

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