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not spending time together.

So my guy and I have been together for a while. & he just got really close to some of his friends. after school my mom gives him a ride home because he lives pretty far away from school, but lately he always has plans with his friends. Not that I care if he hangs out with his friends, but now it’s starting to bother me.

Only because, he doesn’t hang out with me. AT ALL. We haven’t hung out once since school has started, and he’s hung out with his friends acouple times. I would ask him to go out, but I decided to wait for him to ask me. I figure if he can make plans with his friends, he should be able to do the same with me. but he hasn’t.

and when we don’t spend alone time together we start to fight more & we’ve already fought twice in one month (that’s a lot to us because we rarely fight) but the fact that we haven’t hung out seems to not bother him.

I don’t want to talk to him about it because then I’ll feel like I’m forceing him to hang out. so I don’t know what to do.

any imput would be appreciated.

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Answer #1

My ex did the same thing tlk 2 him about it tell him that you know he needs space, and 2 hangout with friends but that you 2 not hanging out is bothering u.

Answer #2

its good that you know he should hang out with his friends but he crossed the line a little here. if he can’t see you tell him thats an important part of a relationship. make sure he still wants to be in a relationship because it looks like he’s not as serious as you are anymore. you have to talk to him about it or else it’ll probably just get worse. if he constantly gets mad at you saying he should have time with his friends & still doesn’t give you the attention you need then I think a break is necessary because he’s not treating you how you deserve to be treated. good luck!

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