new boyfriend

okaaay, so I JUST started dating this kid that I didnt really know tooo well …we are really different. like he is the party kind of boy, and im more of the shy, quiet, good girl. (I dooo go out . but im NO where neer as badass as he is lol) I feel like because im always embarrassed to make a move, or what ever, that he might get bored quickly and want to break up, or maybe he’ll cheat. weve only been dating for 2 weeks, im 15, and hes almost 17… he calls all the time, like onnew years we couldnt be together (but he called) and since we started hanging out he calls almost every day, either justto say hi, or to make plans or what ever, but I feel like he only calls or asks to chill cause he HAS to since we are in an exclusive relationship.

he is really open when it comes to talking, and im pretty shy because im scarred that ill say to much since things are still so new. hes gone much further then I have (with girls) and I dont wanna seem like an idiot, but I reallly dont want things to get boring. is there something I can do to open up a bit more…maybe make things a bit more fun for the two of us? I do really like him, and I want things to work. but I feel like im going to let HIM down. I feel like heee is going to get bored, and realize that this relationship isnt what he was expectinggg… any one have any advice on what I should dooo?!

Answer #1

ahaha well..uhm, we have already made out. and like cuddled up on the couch.and I’ve gone further then this with my ex.. with my current boyfriend we talk all the time, but I feel like its always HIM doing the talking, like I never to know what to say, and I always make it awkward. :S

insidiousfacts - are you saying that I should break up with him, or just talk to him?! -what should I say?

Answer #2

If he’s not loyal then you don’t need him anyways. If he wants to kiss that bad that he is going to cheat, he obviously is in a relationship with you for physical reasons.

Answer #3

wow I think that I have met my twin!

me too! my boyfriend is a badass and I never kissed a guy in my life because I just dont know why. I am too afraid to make a move and when he tries I turn away I don’t know why

but when I do make a move I do something small that makes him like me more like play with his hair or something cute like that. if you just started dating then you should start tlking to him.ask him about his life and what he does and likes and when you feel you know him better, then you can start getting closer to him

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