Need help please and thank you

Thanks in advance for the help and I will appreciate all advice. I was dating my first love ever for about three of and on years but he is an amazing guy. Plays sports, my parents love him, respects me, and has always cared about me and has been my best friend. However, we recently broke up about a month or sooo and have not talk much since everything that has happen and we decide to move on and give each other space to see if what we really feel is love or attachment. Soo we have been in our own pathways and I have tooken the advice to go with a kid who is religious and goes to church. yet his parents are always on top of him like a girls’s parents are. (EX. if we go to the movies he has to have adult supervision or anywhere else) and like he doesnt go to the same school as me and I can only see him wenesday and sundays and now in the summer when ever we can go out but I just do not feel comfortable…

I have learned during this experience that I still love my ex well since all those years and its hard to move on and throw those years away after everything yet I wish not to hurt anybodies feelings and I am wondering what is the best thing to do because I dont want to hurt the kid with the religious parents (yet he had told me in the beginning that he still had feelings for his ex) but he doesnt know about my ex since I would barely talk about it. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? Thanks

Answer #1

I’m not entirely sure what you’re asking but it seems like you still have feelings for your ex, and you need to sort those out. See if he feels the same and if not, you’ll have to accept that. As for the guy with the over protective parents, that’s his problem…

Answer #2

Thanks…justforkicks… and I was asking just an idea of what is best to do in my situation.

Answer #3

Talk to your ex. Call or text him and tell him how you feel. Then wait and see what he says and take it from there. I’ve never dated or been in a relationship or anything, but if you still love the guy and ya’ll have been together for 3+ years, then of course there’s some strong feelings there. If I were you, right now, go and call your ex and talk. Tell him everything about how you feel. If all works out between you and your ex then tell the religous boy and break it to him gently haha. Well Hope I helped ! Good luck!!

Answer #4

But how to I call him if we havent talk in a month and it would be awkward just to call him if I recently wrote a letter to him about how I felt and talk a bit but it didnt realyy clear anything I mean he said he still loved me but what should I do now and the the kid that goes to church.? Thanks for the help people

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