My ex

I (16) work with my ex (18) so I can’t avoid him. We were together for about seven months and had a good time, we ended and about 2 months later, two weeks ago he got a new girlfriend (15). I still have feelings for him and he has said he does a bit, and he moans to me about his new girl which is horrible, but because we are such good friends I listen. I need to know how I can get over him, any ways would be fab, normally I don’t get hung up on guys but he is really hard to get out of my mind and now that I know I can’t have him it seems to be worse.

Answer #1

I agree that you should date other people. Don’t get hung up on him, if it was meant to be you wouldn’t have broken up. I know its hard that you have to see him a lot but put your focus into your work, study, and having fun with OTHER hot boys :) He shouldn’t be moaning to you about his new girlfriend, that would just make you feel crap cause I’m sure your thinking ‘well if she’s so bad then why aren’t you back with me?’ it’s a bit selfish, surely he would realise that it puts you in an awkward situation. Think about the reason/s you broke up and the bad times instead of the good ones if this helps you move forward at all. It doesn’t mean you can’t be friends with him, but if you chose to do so then it WILL be a lot harder than if you were to go your separate ways, as you can’t really get away from him. I cut off all contact with my ex, deleted all photos of us, and deleted his phone number, so I wasn’t tempted to bug him and think about him. It’s harsh but I’m slowly forgetting and it’s getting better.

Answer #2

well the best way I got over my boyfriend of 2 years was datin other people once you find someone better he’ll seem liek nothin 2 u. unless its ment to be then you guys will probably end up together againif that is what you still want if you are heart is in one place sometimes its to hard to move on it took me like 4 months to finally be thro completly and who knows maybe he will realize this 15 year old isn’t as great as he may think then come back to the one person who actually listened to him

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