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My abused and confused friend

There’s this girl in my grade, I truly love her and think she’s an amazing friend.. She’s always there for me and I want to be there for her!! Well, she has been dating this guy who’s a senior for almost half a year now… And he’s been pretty agrriseve this past month or so!! - physically and emotionally!! I tell her how they’re relationship is going downhill and that it’s not healthy for her to keep on being with this guy!! I tell her to break it off with him!! But she’s to scared (I’ve been in her position before and understand)… But today she told me news that made it even harder for me to help her!! She”s pregnant… By him!! And thinks that if she tell’s him…things will be fine!!

Someone please help!! What advice can I give her before she dose something she’ll regret!!

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Answer #1

Tell her she needs to leave asap! there are plenty of guys out there who will love and care for her and the baby! she made the mistake of stayign and now she has to be tough and do the right thing and leave there is other and BETTER love out there and much sweeter guys who treat there girlfriends like queens NOT LIKE DOORMATS!!!

Answer #2

well gracia as harsh as dis may sound da grim truth is that girl is going to do wut she gotta do you cant force someone 2 care because I cant tell you how many times I’ve had 2 convince people 2 come 2 their senses and but you cant force someone 2 care only they can only do that 4 themselves your part as a friend and I’ve did dis and it always worked is just 2 keep trying 2 convince her that that way of life aint right and that she need 2 come 2 her senses ,dont come about it in a agressive way though because that will put distance between yall just dont give up, believe me if you keep trying she will come 2 her senses eventually best of luck malcolm

Answer #3

Tell her to break it off with him, If she is pregnant she shouldn’t want to raise a child in a life style like that. I grew up seeing a lot of aggression and hostility between loved ones and its not healthy. You should try your hardest to get her to break it off with him, he will never change its who he is and who he always will be… And you can be there for her and help her out with the baby and everything she will go through, be her best friend.

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