Money or happiness?

I am 24 years old and feel so very trapped in my current relationship. We have been together for 4 years and we have a 10mth old son. We have had a rocky relationship throughout and we argue a lot. I feel very alone as my b’friend is very cold - by this I mean he does not hardly ever kiss me or cuddle me. We live in a beautiful big house and I have no money worries as he takes care of that. I have tried to speak to my family about how I feel but they just think I am been selfish as he has provided me with such lovely things. I just can’t pretend to be happy when he shows me no affection, and because he is like that he is making me angry towards him and I am begining to hate been around him. He is a great father and he is fantastic with our son but makes me feel so so un-loved. I just don’t know what to do? I have no one to turn too! If I left I would have nothing and my son would lose out. I have no savings and a few debts. I just can’t keep pretending I am happy anymore….

Answer #1

You have to feel confident that you are worthy of being loved. I know having children can change a relationship, but before and after all you are husband and wife. You can have the best of both world. BE CONFIDENT. Find time to look him in his eyes and tell him you want to be loved the way you love him. (Granted that you show him affection) I seem to be drawn to men that were either raised to be brick walls or choose to be. Think of it as a challenge. Try to get creative. Plan just an hour or even shorter than that to show him you missed him all day and can’t wait to see him. Leave him sticky notes in his briefcase or sock drawer. You have to BE CONFIDENT and break the barrier. Even if you have to be tough or even cry to him. Whatever it takes to let him know you are not a damn dog and you need affection just like ever woman, man or child does. No matter if a man denies or not everyone wants to be love and feel loved. BE CONFIDENT, BREAK THAT BARRIER. I believe in you, I know you can do it. I’m 20 yrs old and I have done it. Oh yeah, don’t nit pick on the things he does, boost him up, make him feel like a King. You are man and wife one in the same if he feel strong so will you.

Answer #2

all i can say is tell him u dont feel loved anymore tell him u want affection from him

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