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Me and my girlfriend are having had times right now please help me

About a week ago my girlfriend started getting upset about somethings and not telling me well come to find out she was getting upset about me not going to school (GED im 18) and not having a job at the time we have been dating for almost 2 years anyways back to the point she started talking to a guy at school about all of it they have been writing letter type things in class about me and her well she said somethings I dont really like she let me read it after she told me how she felt and we talked but I still think she is mad at me and I dont know what to do I signed up for my GED class today im looking for a job but she still seems to be upset/mad she told me about 2 weeks ago she was lying to me about getting off the phone because she had stuff to talk about with her mom ect and she would call me back in about 30 mins im scared I dont want to loose her what can I do to make everything better??

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Answer #1

only you can answer that question buddy! Obviously she really cares about where your life is going.. i'm in the same thing she was.. I didn't want to see my guy that i cared for so much.. waste his life away.. its frustrating to see that.. I mean!!! Is maybe you should get her help to get on the right track.. are you doing drugs drinking alot.. or just depressed b\c you hate the way your life is.. i'm pretty sure she doesn't want to see that.. I got really pissed when my guy didn't listen it i aloud myself to get hurt becuase of it.. don't let her suffer b\c your not willing to try.. thats good that you got a job and you are getting your GED! Keep talking to her, take her out to dinner and tell her you don't want to lose you… maybe shes just tired of caring and trying. an pulling your weight around.have you thanked you that she made you realize? You made the right move.. now she needs you!

Answer #2

i am aamir majeed. my age is 18m ok. i am a student

Answer #3

sit down with her and ask her whats going on; what she feels is wrong and what you can do to help. It may be shes going through a bad patch emotionally; girls and their emotions are very strongly tied. Just let her know that whatevers going on, you love her and are there for her. Let me know how you get on. Best of luck.

Answer #4

You should be slightly upset with her for airing out her laundry with some other guy. Instead of talking it out with you. I would have really questioned that..

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