Me and my complicated life.

Me and my ex broke up last week and he already is after this other girl… well ofcourse I got hurt to know that he already wants this girl in less than a week when we broke up… it hurted me even more for the fact that we were together for a year and 6 months and that he saw me as the “one”. Well I’ve been trying to move on and I can say that I dont have as strong feelings for him than I did then… but I will always love him.

Anyway… I just found out, that my friend whose been cheering me up likes me and wants to show my ex how its done cause he hurted me so much… but to top all of that.. the girl that my ex is after, is apparently a slut =/ my friend told me that shes still with her current boyfriend but she wants to break up with him cause his childish and immature but she’s still with him and she kisses other boys thats not even her boyfriend, and she cries to my ex about her and her boyfriend and thats why his after her.. cause I rarely make him feel needed and wanted cause I never cry to him :( [thats all I never got].. anyway yeah I know my ex than anyone else and his overprotective and if they got together his gonna get hurt if he ever see her kiss a guy cause he already gets protective when a guy talks to me.

I dont know what to do, I still love my ex, but theres other guys out there I dont know if I should wait for him and comfort him and all of that, my friend told me that my ex is forcing himself to be happy with this other girl even though she around some other boys than him, he looks so miserable and I dont want my ex to be hurt by another slut but my friend who likes me is sweet and apparently he liked me for a long time he just never did anything cause I was still with my boyfriend then but now his gone his been really sweet to me.. I dont know him that much so im afraid where im into. what should I do?

Answer #1

hmm well you cant get over your ex just like that. especially as you dated for such a long time. To me it seems as though he just wants a girl who makes him feel as though she needs him.. depite whether she a slut. I guess you just have to let him get on with what he feels he wants to do. But still be friends with him so that you are there to comfort him when he gets hurt. But you shouldnt stop looking at other guys. Your friend who likes you… you may or may not like him now and maybe when your over your ex you may feel things for your friend too. So I guess all im saying is … be there for your ex if he needs comforting if this girl hurts him but dont stop your own love life for him. Yes take the time to get over him because you dont want to start things up with another guy half hearted (not fully into him or fully over your ex) as it wouldnt be fair on him. But when you are over your ex .. just go for it. life is too short to be waiting around for somone who didnt realise you were worth keeping.

I hope this helps you sorry if it doesnt

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