Not able to break up with my abusive boyfriend

well, guys, a couple of weeks ago I posted a question to know if mu boyfriend is abusive… and well. no wi know for sure he is.. but m not able to break upw ith him.. because I still love him and when he come back to me. I keep giving him chances.. he hit me, choked me and tore my shirt.. bruised me last night .. but still I have given him a chance.. idont seem to have a courage tobreak up may be bcz I love him a lot.. I dont know how toend it… or where or when and how to tell him that its over..

Answer #1

an abusive relationship can get really serious and you can really get hurt.m advice would be to leave him. if hes hurting you he doesn’t love you. I now 2 people who got beaten to death it really broke my heart. your relationship can only keep getting worse. whatever you decide to do.

Good Luck, I hope this helped

Answer #2

I disagree with the others, just because he’s violent doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you, just means he doesn’t know how to deal with it. There are classes and help groups for people like him. Give him the chance to sort himself out and if he won’t then you have to be brave and leave him because sometimes you have to forget how you feel and remember what you deserve.

Answer #3

That’s not true love. You should report him. You can forgive him and be friends, but I don’t think it’s best to stay with him.

Answer #4

I dont even know him and I hate him , what kind of love from a guy would make you feel like this and hit you.

love is blind and would take over your mind.

MANq why you keep takinq him back once he hit you the first time you should of been stronq and left him , you lettinq him fck around with your mind and your life , what happens if one day he hits you so hard he kills you , qod is qivinq you a chance now take it the only one that can do whatever he wants with us is qod.

Answer #5

It really sounds like your the one who needs help breaking away from him. Two broken people cant fix each other. By staying with him, you are enabling him to be abusive. If you are unable to get out of the relationship, maybe you need to seek counseling. You can choose to get him out of your life. Its YOUR choice, not his! Keep telling yourself that you can choose to can choose to stop feeling emotional pain over him as he is no longer in my life, so it doesnt matter. You need to start loving yourself, before you can love someone else. This is NOT loving behavior to say the least, on both ends! Learn from your mistakes. Look for red flags in people, and if you see some from the start, don’t get involved!!

Answer #6

That’s not true love. You should report him. You can forgive him and be friends, but I don’t think it’s best to stay with him.

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