Lust for a girl. Any advise or opinons?

Lately I’ve been dating with a guy who is very nice indeed. But when ever im with him, I dont have the “sexual feeling”. Even though when we are doing it, I dont have that kind of turn on feeling that I usually have.

I have this girl friend of mine at work, she is so gorgeous and shes my partner(in work project). When ever I see her, even just looking at her, I got this tingling feeling. When she touch my thigh, I got all wet..for no apparent reason. I got easiIy turn on. never have this feeling towards any girl before..

What does this mean? help..

Answer #1

sounds like your bi-curiouse .. would it be a stretch to say that your turning yourself on with fantasy brought about by your sudden attraction to this one girl? … point being that really NO ONE can turn you on if your not first accepting of it… so by first thinking about how atrracted you are to her she then has the ability to arouse you.. and also because your confused about feeling this way about her , it then lends a sense of danger or naughtyness to it that you miss with your current boyfriend… you say he is really good to you and thats the problem. its not exciting because its predictable… I guess the only advice I have is for your boyfriend . id tell him to shake things up alittle bit maybe throw sumthing.. id be willing to bet if he fought with you more there would be some passion.. (only saying because I relate to the situation)… really you dont need advice. just do what your heart tells you always and you will be just fine.

Answer #2

Maybe, and I’m not trying to be offensive in the least, your justs not into guys much. Mayber your girlfriend is special to you. Either this or, this guy just isn’t your type.

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