Long distance trouble

Love doesn’t just happen once like people say. You need to learn how to make yourself the only stable thing in your life. Even if you do love him you are to young to have learned how to be an independent person yet. Don’t get serious with a guy until you’ve learned how to survive on your own. You won’t die without him and the next time you find love it will be better so long as you don’t stay stuck in the past. I’ve known a lot of women and I know that you are capable of anything. My mother raised me alone and I have a lot of respect for that. No one will ever respect you until you are capable of being alone and love doesn’t happen right without respect.

14 is a maturing age, but Hun, you havent been around long enough to experience life. The love you feel now, is NOT the love you will feel 6 years from now. You cant rely on someone else for happiness. It has to come from within. Long distance relationships are tough, and even tougher for young teens. Go out and make new friends, because at this point you have no other choice. You cant plan on how your future is going be. Its called fate. If things are meant to be with you & him, then you will be together, but for now, you have to accept how things are, and make the best of it. You arent going to get anywhere feeling sorry for yourself.