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Life is so horrible for me.

Well, life really scuks.

Im a year 8 and I weight like 75 kg. im about 152cm -145 high. Everyone at school says that im fat and stuffy, (really hurts) I’ve tired to lose weight.

Vegie Diet Take up a sport Compound exercise

I’ve been like 75 kg from when I was year 6 and its been 2 long years. Im still the same weight. 12 - 14 years im still 75. nothing has changed. Im getting teased so bad at school. Like :

“ That fat boy hasn’t changed and still looks like a ball from last last last year “

“ Wow. What size is your shirt man? Nice shorts. “ And then someone would always is like .. “ XXX Xer Large. “

“ Your mum looks skinner then you “ This happens almost everywhere I go… Teachers done nothing.

Can someone help me out? How do I lose weight? I can’t stand it seeing people happy when im all depressed.

Im treated no worst then a dog. =[

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Answer #1

What you’re going through now is the worst time of your life, and it will get better from here.

Kids are cruel, and they’ll hurt anyone to make themselves look better. What you have to remember is the ones who are hurting you are hurting even more. Kids who are happy and content don’t feel the need to pick on other kids. Whoever is picking on you must be going through a very difficult time in their own life and they use you as a tool to vent their own frustration.

I know that doesn’t help much, but at some point inyour life, you’re going to have to learn to build a wall. Let those you trust and care for in, and block everyone else out. The world is a cruel place, and although I don’t condone bullying in the very least, it will leave you prepared for the adult world, which is more than the bullies are getting.

In the end, you’ll be strong and determined, and they will be lost and confused.

Answer #2

You’re not alone even if it feels that way, loads of people are very very depressed by their appearance even though they shouldn’t be because they actually look good. And late childhood/the teenaged years are usually full of bullying and lots of upsets. But most people agree that there is nothing sexier and more attractive than confidence and being happy in your own skin. Make the best of your appearance and relax, if you saw or knew someone who was overweight would you really care or think they were a worse person because of it? If you are a caring, confident person, you will be naturally attractive, I find that hard to believe too, but according to loads and loads of people it is the truth. And to be honest, I prefer guys who are over weight as opposed to those who are really skinny.

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