How do I get through life with my biggest fear and problem?

I got a speech impediment, which dont allow me to pronoun barly any word correct, its make it difficult for peoples to understand me. I feel like ill never get thru life or do anything wonderful because of this. I had a few job interview, and i found it very hard to make it thru the whole thing, I was surprised that the managers didnt even asked me about my problem or even mention it. I didnt tell them tho, but see i cant go to interview, if i do i have to choose my word very i mean very careful which. Well i have to do that every time i talk to peoples i speak some words better then other, so i have to choose them wisely. I wanted to go to college but i dont know how i would do that, i wanted to get my GED, stuff like that is shatter because i cant talk right but yet im smart and stuff but that problem overshadow every good trait i have. I was lucky enough to get a girlfriend who help me with stuff like doctor appointments and everything. Still she wont be there forever, and im afraid when she leave if she do ill be trap in a hole and never be able to find my way out.

I just need some tips or anything, to help me learn how to get thru life and problems and like get a job without its being to difficult…i had a crazy idea but i dont know if i could go thru with that.. is like when i go to a interview i lets them know about my impairment, but i doubt i got enough pride and courage to do that. Then for things like appoints i get a state ID and bring it with me at all time to lets them know my name, DOB, stuff like that so i wont have to talk.

but i still dont know … help?

p.s i cant do anymore speech training class i reached the max they said

Answer #1

When going to job interviews I think it’s best to come clean and tell them. It could help them just understand you more, tell them when you work it won’t have an effect. And I think ya going to more speak classes would help, you can’t find other people? Try practicing on your own with someone else. But don’t let this stop you alot of people encounter similar things and they overcome it.Maybe you could research to see of other people have the same problem. Try to think of it as something that makes u stronger and something you have to overcome.

Answer #2

yeah man, if you take your time and tell them exactly what it is, which they obviously already know, they will gain respect for you.

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