Is the real thing starting to happen?

well NOT every guy is the same, there are a lot of guys out there who do think about the future with someone. I dont know the guy so I would say he’s either… 1: useing you for whatever he can get untill he gets bak with his ex. 2: (which I think is most likely) keeping his options open because he doesnt know which one of you he wants more. 3: jus playin both you and his ex untill he finds someone else. 4: useing you to try and get over his ex incase she doesnt take him back.

my advice in this situation is stay friends but definatly keep your guard up, dont do anything with him untill your sure he wants u, otherwise it could all end badly 4 u.

hope this helps, good luck. if you have anymore questions feel free to funmail me.

so maybe not all guys but when they are young they don’t really know what they want.. Same for girls so don’t get me wrong. It all just really depends on the person.

If hes trying to get back with his ex, then he probley doesn’t want the real thing with you. Sounds like hes using you as some sort of place holder, that sucks.

Boys tend to do that sort of thing. It’s like in every guys manual of how to function. If he is trying to work out things with his ex then the odds don’t look to good for you. The way I see it is, you two have already had this kind of relationship so for him to just jump rite back into it isn’t hard or akward. Girls look into things more, but for guys they seem whats there at the time, and tend not to think about whats going to happen in the future. sorry sweety but I’d keep my guard up around this guy if I were you.