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is it just a dream or can it happen to a girl like me?

okay im in the 8th grade and havent dated because im really shy and im sick of it. I like a couple guys but my heart sinks when ever they flirt with another girl. I want to talk to them but im to shy. in my dreams I dream of a handsome guy to pull me into the social life? will it ever come true or is it just a dream and I have to get I guy if I want one?

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Answer #1

you shuldn’t b shy but hey a lot of girls are. just have some confidence. Don’t rush into asking some guy out just think about it for a while and when you are ready the time will come. Honestly I believe that all girls will find there true love someday and trust me I think you will. do as kimber said. Have a friend ask for you. It’s always the shy ones that become confident. Don’t worry about it. start flirting with some guys. Start off slow then next thing you know you will be the girl that all the boys want =D hope I helped xoxo

Answer #2

omg! you remind me of me when I was in the 7th grade. and to be honest now-n- days the kute guys are always looking for the prettiest girls in school. thats how it is in my town anyways. but when I was in 7th grade I use to always be shy and wish that I could get the attention. but what I think that you should do is that instead of a guy pulling you to the center of attention you should get a really confident friend. that helped me. now all of a sudden I have guys always wanting to hang out wit me and I owe it all to her becuase she took me out my shell. I also think that you can do it on your own. just flirt with boys. start with the small fish and then go for the bigger ones. before you know it boys are going to be after you all the time. =)

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