Is everything going to be ok?

Not really. I feel people say that to just make me feel better, but do they really know how things are going to turn out? Most likely not. I think people say that usually because they feel like they are supposed to. When I’m upset I usually just like people leaving me alone so I can think about everything and cry my feelings away. I hate when people sit there saying “things will get better” because they don’t know that, they say it to try and cheer you up. To me it just makes me feel worse knowing someone is saying things that they don’t truly know. Instead of people saying “everything is going to be okay” I think they should just try their best to make sure everything will be okay. When I’m upset I don’t want people saying things that will make the situation better, I want them doing things. Actions speak louder then words.

not really, but I hate it when people try to comfort me. If I cry and people see if Im ok, I cry more, Just leave me alone. And, when your in phys ed and the teacher says stuff like ‘good try’ or ‘almost got it’, it ticks me of. leave me alone..

yes, my friends always do that. however I wish some random person would do that to me sometime (besides my lunch monitor at my school, that was creepy) because that would mean that things will get better, because if a stranger does that to another stranger, love is obviously going around which makes everyone feel better:)

I needed to hear it twice in my life… once when I my first marriage ended and I thought I was a failure for not making it work, and then again when I lost a parent. I needed to hear it then focus on it and believe it. And it was true…

Its happened before to me- but everything wasn’y very ok. I wish people would now though, I have more to be concerned about now. Britz

I wish I had someone to tell me, I dont care if it’s true or not, sometimes you just need to hear it…