How do I show my girl that I'm crazy about her?

Im lost here I need to know how to show her I’m absolutely crazy about her I have sum great ideas but their are a few obstacles in my way to do it,her parents don’t want me to ever see or talk to her ever again,thanks to her brother,that printed out our aim convo’s about sex..haha I’ve said the words a million times, I’ve pulled crazy stunts to see her when it was almost near impossible to at the time,she just lost her best friend in a car accident a few weeks ago and shes real sensitive to everything rite now and shes doubting how much I really care about her and nothing I say is the right thing, and I cant see her ever unless her parents leave for a few hours and I’m always not there in time because I don’t get off work till later..and its totally random when she can call me(her parents check the phone bill to see if my number popd up) I always miss the opportunity to see her…I really need sum advice..and giving up isn’t an option I really want her to know how much I really care before I leave for basic,and her mother will not reason she is a high doller nut case! (im not high doller because im only 19) and my family has money but my parents passd recently so she thinks im undisiplind,im the youngest most motivated self disiplind guy anyone will ever meet,I did get her home late 2wice when I was 18 but no ones perfect..what do I do?

Answer #1

im in the same boat, im in love with a girl who I cant see but once in a blue moon, and plenty of other guys like her and get to see her every day, but she only wants to see me. but because there is so much pressure involved, we cant be together and im afraid im going to loose her if I dont do something crazy to prove how much I care.

I know that if you feel any way towards that girl like I do to mine, then your really in love. and its worth fighting for. I know im never going to give up.

Answer #2

Ok her parents arnt with her all day for every minute, maybe buy her a new cell phone with a new number only for you and her to talk with, tell her to hide it so no one in her family can find it when she is at home, but when she does get alone time to call you you’ll be able to talk alot more, tell her to only keep that phone for you and her to speak on when ever she can without her parents finding out and that will prove to her that your not going anywhere and you want to speak to her as much as you can? wat u reckon?

Answer #3

YEAH LOVE IS A POWERFUL THING, BUT IF YOU HAD TO GO THROUGH ALL THIS MABEY IT’S NOT MEANT TO BE I HOPE THAT DOES’NT SOUND SO HARSH BUT YOU DON’T HAVE TO SNEAK BEHIND CLOSE DOORS FOR LOVE,THERE’S PLENTY OF WOMEN OUT THERE THAT’S WILLING TO CARE ABOUT YOU,AND WALK HAND TO HAND WITH YOU,JUST MOVE ON,AND LOOK FOR THE WOMAN THAT GOD SET FOR YOU.

Answer #4

if you really love this girl you should wait if she recenly lost a friend. telling her how you feel will just complicate things. try finding some way to contact her. l think of any:(

from: zads11
p.s: love really is complacateing

Answer #5

A similar thing happend to me, im 16 and my ex was only 14. she didnt look that young and acted really mature and yea. when my parents found out they said i couldnt go to her house or anything, so i always used to sneak over and yea you just have to learn that if you dont make a descision soon and something happens you will regret it for the rest of your life.

you have to stand up the parents, sit down and discuss it, and ask if they really think that the best for there daughter is not to see you, because itt probly hurts her.

Answer #6

well i dont think u have to do something huge i think that u should give her ur cell # and have her cal that instead so that u dont miss her calls. then u could also write her letters and send them to her. dont let the parents stop u from seeing her. show her parents that u are actually a really nice kid and that u wouldnt do nething to hurt her.

Answer #7

wow, that is actually thee sweetest thing to care so much for a girl. first off i dont think she knows how lucky she is to have a guy like u, 2nd fck her parents. k i had the exact same thing happen to me with my ex bf he seant me a message on msn and my mom was on the computer and she read it, it was the complete opposite of appropriate and lets just say she was beyond pleased, she actually wanted rip this guys testicals off and shove them up his a*. i kid you not. for the longest time she didnt she didnt have respect for him and she wouldnt let me hang around him. he couldnt do anything he came over one day and tried to be kind and talk to her about it, it did not do a single thing except make her thinkk he was a big b-s’er. she was not rude to his face but she still didnt want me to see him. so it had to be me that explained it to her, it took a couple weeks but it cleared the air. im sorry to say but its but theres not much u personally can do about it. after she talks to her parents about itif she does i would sudgest after they are cooler u would want to do that. they would trust their own daughter more so than they would her bf even if he was sincere. and for wanting to show her that, let her know. straight up tell her im crazy about you,she knows u have money so if u try to show it through buying her something its not nearly as meaningingful as it would be if you showed her. do something special for her that doesnt cost 100’s of dollars something simple but that shows u care soo much. (letters is also a good idea.)

Answer #8

if you really want to show her you care and u have some big ones i would advise stopping by the house when u know her parents will be home and looking as respectfull as you can get and ask to have an audience with both her parents. if you manage to get past the door ask them if there is some where you can sit and talk and when u sit start by explaining how sorry you are about the situation with the aim and that you had a laspe of momentary boyness and meant no disrespect toward there little girl and you have nothing but the up most respect for her and so on offer them as many appologies as you can but by the time ur done if ur good you would have made her father realize he was the same when he was young and her mom remembering how she wished someone would have done such a thing for her but make sure when u leave to offer her father a hand shake and her mother a nod and it wouldn’t hurt that if u can futher your way in to bring her mom some flowers. trust me most baby boomer children even though they are old now were still mostly raised that guys ask permission to date the daughters. most of this was lost on our generation and it has caused many of your generation to suffer for it but good luck with this

Answer #9

A similar thing happend to me, im 16 and my ex was only 14. she didnt look that young and acted really mature and yea. when my parents found out they said i couldnt go to her house or anything, so i always used to sneak over and yea you just have to learn that if you dont make a descision soon and something happens you will regret it for the rest of your life.

you have to stand up the parents, sit down and discuss it, and ask if they really think that the best for there daughter is not to see you, because itt probly hurts her.

Answer #10

choke her, spank her , and pull her hair , all while declaring your everlasting love !!!

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