If I asked him the right question?

Im 16 and my boyfriend is 18. one day we went to far, in my head, and I asked him if we could slow down and he said “yes”. now when I call him to make plans, he doesn’t answer. his phone eithers rings many times and goes to voicemail or it rings 2 or 3 times and goes to voicemail. did I do something wrong in our relationship? should I haven’t asked that question?

Answer #1

It could just be a coincidence that he stopped answering after you asked him that. He just might not have mins on his phone or is grounded maybe I don’t know.. but YOu were right to ask him that. It is your right to tell him no and that you want to slow things down a bit. If he is a decent guy, he will do as you ask.. If hes not, then he isnt worth your time.

Answer #2

Maybe he wants to go that far; which could mean he could possibly only be interested in one thingg. Which obviously, is not good. He probably said yes to keep you from getiing mad but I wouldnt be surprised if he trys pushing things farther then you want .. So just be aware of what could happen. If you havent been dating long and arent in this deep then I would end things with him bc if you dont want to go far and he does then thats gunna end up with someone not happy; which leads to fighting and blah blah blah. Also; if your not giving him what he wants (if he’s not faithful) then he could be out doing things with other girls. Don’t be affraid to talk about things with him and say you dont wanna go far and if thats what he wants and what hes in it for then he doesnt belong in your life.

Answer #3

No, you have the right to let your boyfriend know what you’re uncomfortable with. You don’t ever have to go farther with anyone than you want to, even if he is your boyfriend. You did the right thing. He seems to be avoiding you which proves that you did the right thing. He is an immature a-hole that was likely interested in you mostly for the ‘physical benefits’ and the sooner you get rid of him for good, the better.

Answer #4

this is sO typical Of guys tO dO and its like cOmpletely nOrmal I dOnt think its because you asked him that…its juss hOw guys r

Answer #5

no find another boyfriend if you feel that strongly about it

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