I don't know what 2 do but I love him so much

Ok well my x boyfriend who is like all most totally perfect broke up with me cause I am supposedly possessive and controlling now I can agree I do get jealous quite easily and I am quite protective and may be a bit possessive but controlling ? I don’t believe I’m controlling at all I don’t tell him what too do I mean I do at times suggest too him not too do some stuff but other then that I don’t tell him what too do and I love him and want 2 be with him and the only way I think he will let me back into his life is if I stop doing this now I know some of you are going too be don’t change just for him be your self and all this but the thing is is I’m like this with every one I date and may be thats why I get dumped so I want too change so that even if it still wont work out with him then may be it will work out with some one else better then it would if I where like this so how do I change and what should I do and how do you think I can win him back and what do you think do you think I am ?

Answer #1

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Answer #2

it seems like he isn’t giving you as much attention as you want, are you sure you want this because in most relationships I’ve seen, the couples at least talk once a day. let him know that your feeling left out if thats the case. it almost seems like hes taking advantage of you because when hes not busy he has time for you. if you want fun mail me or explain to me more of your situation, im here to help

Answer #3

well I do but hes is pretty much perfect now I know no one is perfect but damn hes pretty close 2 it and I know he makes mistakes and I am kool with that cause all of his perfection makes up for hid imperfection and yea I think about what hes doing but most of the time I don’t care I mean I’m not 1 of those people that tell him he can’t chill with friends or any thing he does it all the time and I don’t mind just talking 2 him once a week is good enough for me just so long as I know hes going 2 be busy the rest of the week but no apparently thats being possessive

Answer #4

well I’ve been told im controlling before too. I think what you might be doing wrong is you expect the guy to be perfect & if he does something wrong you get mad easily. are you the type of person to over analyze and think about what your boyfriend does? if so then stop taking the small things so seriously, if he didn’t cheat on you or come close to it then you shouldn’t become jealous all the time. your guy probably just likes space which is normal and when a girlfriend tries to to tell him everything she wants out of him he may feel overwhelmed and in the end just turned off. I think you can win him back but be sure you do change because you wouldn’t want to get your heart broken again. sorry if anything I said sounds offensive, im really just trying to help, good luck!

Answer #5

Ok will do

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