I need new friends

so im having a really hard time making friends in college, its been like 3 or 4 months now and I still have like no friends!!! I was originally friends with this girl Ashley and all of her dorm but she started to get close to this girl in her dorm and now we dont hang out anymore, I still talk to some of the people in her dorm but their boys and since Ashley doesn’t call me anymore I don’t really see the boys anymore. when I see the people from her dorm they all ask me where I been but I don’t know because I dont just want to be friends with a bunch of guys im a girl. Then I started to talk to my roommate and I still do talk to my roommate but shes always either at home or talking to the boys downstairs, AGAIN the whole boy thing I want girl friends! her friend from home lindsey lives in our dorm well lindsey doesnt like me so whenever lindsey is with us at dinner and lindsey is done eating my roommate will leave wth her and leave me there. or lindsey will ask her to go to the mall or something but I wont ever get a invite. Lindsey, Lisa (my roommate) and Jordan( lindseys roomate) always are together and go places together but I never get the invite I like jordan and tried to be friends with her but the whole lindsey situation isnt working for me, there are other girls down the hall that I want to get to know but I dont know how I should go about doing it, see im really shy and its kinda too late to be like hi im Jayla because they already know that, I never had a problem making friends in highschool I dont know what the problem is now!!!11

Answer #1

Well if you don’t have the guts to just invite someone out for coffee or just to hang out, you could find some other excuse like hey you’re in my calculus class right? could you help me with my homework…or whatever, talk about the teacher being nice or just find different topics to talk baout and find other ways to get them to spend time with you like if someone knows how to knit well you could ask them to teach you or if someone likes to go swimming you could invite them to the pool or jogging…etc etc You could also try to organize something that gets everyone involved like a b-day party or a clothing exchange evening or some kind of other social event. this way you could meet people and do something fun together. Last but not least, you could join a club or do some extra curricular activities where you can meet new people like a sports club or group, a drama or arts class, etc. Check out what your campus has to offer and don’t stay in your room all depressed get out there, do your own thing and I promise you’ll meet people that you’ll get along with. It’s important to do things you like that way you’ll meet people that have the same interests. Good luck!

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