I need as much advice as possible, guys/girls.

so I’ve been dating my boyfriend for over 6 months, but I still have really deep feelings for the guy I was with last summer me and the guy are friends now we hangout because we both care for eachother allot and can tell eachother anything my boyfriends aware me and my ex have feelings for eachother and he kows I wont cheat so it’s fine, but it’s been getting really hard lately because likeing 2 people at once when you have a boyfriend hurts you feel really guilty and I dont know if I should dump my boyfriend or not because I feel bad liking 2 people at once? I mean me and my boyfriend also just became sexually active and much closer in a relationship so this is horrible timing. advice , suggestions anything? thanks.

Answer #1

do a pros and cons list 4 both of em 2 see wich one has da most pros go 4 em. if you still dont have 1 then break it off with your boyfriend. tell him you need time and tell him whats going on with u

Answer #2

Well sorry to tell ya, but you have got to choose one or the other. This kind of thing is not very healthy towards your mind and I’m honestly surprised your boyfriend hasn’t dumped you because you still talk to the other guy and like him. Anyways, yeah you gotta choose one, maybe by asking yourself “who do I like more?” “who makes me more happy?” etc.

Hope I helped :)

Answer #3

u reely need to choose one of them because if you dont ull end obsessing over them,an ull feel caught inbetween them.also feel bad 4 your guy.think of how he feels rite now.imagine himw/ 2 grrls,his exand u.now think of how you woold feel rite now,w/ him unsure of hoo he luvs mor.get th picture??

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