I'm 15 years old and I'm afraid I might be pregnant.

I’m 15 years of age and recently I have been really paranoid about being pregnant. I do not want to be having children at this age. Adoption is NOT an option for me. If I am pregnant, I want to get an abortion or try to figure out a way to get rid of it. I am waaay too young to be having a baby.

Just a couple days ago, (I think Monday), I was feeling really nauseous, and my body hurt all over really bad. I went upstairs to take a bath and put really hot water, but I guess I was so sick, my body didn’t register that it was HOT. It felt like ICE!!

After I took that bath, I felt extremely nauseated and finally vomited. I kept vomiting about 12 times and then stopped.

The next day, my body hurt all over. Not really like pins and needles…but it was uncomfortable to sit, stand, walk, lay down…anything!

I noticed a little pudge and I have been feeling a little fat lately. I’m usually around 120 pounds and I am 5’3’’. My stomach is usually really small, but it has gotten some weight on it.

I practice un-safe sex…(Yes, I know. Shame on me.) But I know precum doesn’t have any sperm in it…So I thought it was alright…(at the time…)

I’m scared to death. I don’t want a baby. I don’t have money to get a pregnancy test.

The last time I had sex was about 3 or 4 weeks ago…but my period was ON TIME.

Now, I don’t know if that means that I’m not pregnant, but I’m REALLY concerned.

Help!

Answer #1

Hi. I can only imagine how you must be feeling. I’m sorry you are going through this. Not to sound like a mom, but these are the kinds of worries that come with having sex. It is a mistake that many make and regret later.

First thing you should do is get to a doctor ASAP. If you are pregnant, you need to know as soon as possible. I know it may be difficult, but you need to let your parents know what’s going on so they can help you. If you are walking around with a baby and not getting the proper care, it can be detrimental to both the baby and you.

Second, if you are pregnant, I would reconsider adoption or even keeping the baby. I know it is a hard decision when you are so young, but the reality is that the act of sex results in pregnancy and while it may feel good, the consequences don’t seem to be worth the temporary pleasure. I do hope that you are not pregnant and if you’re not, I hope that you will remember the scare that unwise decisions can put on you and also look at how less you will have to worry if you just refrain from doing it. But most importantly, definitely get to a doctor to see what is wrong. I hope everything works out favorably:)

Answer #2

well, I would take some test, go to the health department, and take test there, its free. I would go and see a doctor too, see how you are in a couple days, but I wouldnt have an abortion if you are pregnant, if your going to have sex your age and not think your going to have the chance of getting pregnant no matter what you do, you are crazy and its like your going to punish the baby for your mistakes. You know it is a human being.! thats just like going up and mudering somoene. thats just how I think about it, if you dont want it, maybe adoption would be best, but think it through. goodluck.

Answer #3

She didn’t ask any of you your opinions on abortion. She has made up her mind and it’s her body. Who are you to tell her what to do. Also, it’s not a baby, it’s a fetus until it is born, that’s simple definitions. If she doesn’t want to carry the baby and doesn’t think she is ready, she is doing the responsible thing by aborting it.

Answer #4

It grows into a human, but it is not one while it’s in the womb. She didn’t ask for you opinion on the abortion though, she was asking if we thought she might be pregnant. There’s a difference between giving your opinion and pushing your views onto someone who did not ask them.

Answer #5

it is still a human.the fetus grows into a human, in the belly it becomes a human…,im not going to argue about it but she did ask for OUR oppinion and I gave mine. its plan and simple. if you dont agree with it I really dont care, its my oppinion…people agree and disagree

Answer #6

Pre-cum DOES have sperm in it doll. Take a pregnancy test if you are worried, although it sounds like the Flu to me. Take a test anyways to know for sure. If are having unsafe sex the chances of you being pregnant are great. Also, abortion is the only way to get rid of the baby. Dont try anything else, it could kill you and the baby.

Answer #7

First of all…pre-cum DOES have trace amounts of sperm, and it CAN get you pregnant.

The symptoms you are describing sound more like a flu than pregnancy, but I’d advise you get a test done. The sooner, the better.

Answer #8

I’m feeling the same way - tired, achey, sometimes I feel dizzy, I’ve puked a few time (sorry, gross, I know). It does sound like the flu, but then again, you did have sex..unprotected. So, there is a chance you are, and there’s a chance you are not. Go by a test - its the only way to find out. And if you find out you’re not pregnant, let this be a lesson for you to learn! A very important lesson! I’m 15 also. At one point I thought I was pregnant. I didn’t have sex, but I just got sooo paranoid about it, that I saw my belly getting big. I wasn’t pregnant. I was thinking about it sooo much that I made myself believe I was pregnant..I definitley learned my lesson!

Answer #9

Maybe to ease your worries a bit…it doesn’t sound like you’re pregnant to me. Sounds like you had caught some stomach bug. Cause my sister was like that a while ago and threw up like tons of times, plus, sometimes I get sick like that where I’m freezing, can touch something hot, and it doesn’t bother me and I throw up every 5 minutes, and my stomach is bloated…but that’s because sometimes my stomach produces too much acid and I end up getting really sick and stuff. So you may have been just really really sick. But if you’re really worried, why not go to the doctor or take a test.

Answer #10

It sounds like you have the flu…but to ease your mind take a pregnancy test to be sure.

If it comes out positive you have to do what is right for you…don’t worry about what anyone else tells you, it’s your body and you’re the only one that can make decisions for your body.

But as mandyloo said don’t try to do anything yourself…you could really get hurt.

Answer #11

Well i know this is harsh but your jsut gonna have ot live with the decision you made.. and abortoin is basically murdering your child… wrong

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