I have this guy frienddd...

please give me adviccceee..he and I sorta drifted apart and now im sorta pissed at him…like majorly because hes always telling me how much he misses me and what not but yet he wont call me first or IM me first I always haveta be the one to tlk to him and that reallly ticks me off because all my friends no that I have this thing where I dont like calling or messaging people first because I feel like im bugging them you no? and when I do msg him sometimes I wont even get a response…and we use to be wicked close…I havent tlked to him in weeks…I feel so pissed and sad at the same time because when you miss someone you try contacting them right? you dont just wait and sit there until they tlk to you you no…? I want my friend back I relly care about him idunno how to get things back to the way they were…=/ any advice? please?