I feel used

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months. I feel like all he wants to do is have sex. He’s a really great guy and we always talk about it. He just says thats how guys are they can’t really help it. Why do I not feel like having sex as much as he does? I like sex don’t get me wrong and its not like our sex life is bad. I Just feel like thats all he wants to do, but the way he acts I can tell he cares. Is it just me and I’m over thinking the situation?

Answer #1

Sorry, but all guys are NOT like that. You’ve only been together for 3 mos. Thats a bit early to be wanting/talking sex all the time. If you two cant go a day without getting physical, then you dont have much of a relationship. A relationship isnt/shouldnt be based on sex. There are MORE important aspects couples need to work on before sex is even brought into the picture. Sex hinders all those other aspects, because it becomes the main focus!! If you cant enjoy each others company by going for walks, or just chilling, then the relationship isnt going to survive long term! Seems hes more interested in sex, than he is in you as a person!

If you feel like thats all he wants is sex, then thats probably all he wants! Always go with your gut instinct, thats what its there for!

Answer #2

It depends on how he reacts when you say no. If he gets all pissed and starts being rude to you then thats a tell tale sign that he’s a jerk. If he still treats you the same then dont worry about it. If it still really bothers you talk to him about it again, but be more serious about it. Explain why you feel like he’s using you and how you dont feel like this is helping your relationship. If he doesn’t show that he cares then dump his loser a$$.

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