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How to help my heartbroken best friend?

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Ok now my best friend was dating this guy, and they broke up. But she dosen’t take it too well, she says she dosen’t care. But there is this sence of misery in her voice that you can just tell is there. This guy has basicly hopped from one girl to another. Now when I think about her, I get this terrible feeling in my heart. I have never in the five years I have known her seen her so upset, and it almost makes me want to cry. I have tried to help her because befor they broke up, she was haveing a bad day, and she was really snapy, and this happens, I just feel so bad, and there is nothing I can do. She has told me herself that I listen to what she is saying, and that I don’t tune her out like most people do. But she is so upset she won’t even talk to me. Which makes me feel even worse about her that she won’t even talk to her best friend. Anyone have any suitable advice? I mean it when I say this- DON’T PUT UP SOMETHING USELESS THAT WON’T DO ME ANY GOOD, I FEEL SO BAD THAT I DON’T NEED DUMB REMARKS ON HERE!

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Answer #1

tina why dont you jus start wit the advice and leave him alone. every1 duz go through the same thing but I had a friend who went through exactly what your friend is doing. she refused to do anything and stayed home. she and I used to ride horses a lot 2gether. the best thing you can do is jus b there, if you give up because she wont talk, then when shes rede she wont think you care. I’ve felt the same thing over and over again (dont ask people…). she’ll b bak before you know it. shes your friend deep down, jus give her space but jus always b there 4 her.

Answer #2

dude calm the hell down. beggers can’t be choosers, if you’re going to desperately ask for advice then you better be expecting to hear some dumb remarks. get over yourself. anyway, we all go through some type of grieving process when we come out of a relationship. just give her a little space, but be supportive and let her know that if she needs to talk, you’ll be there for her. eventually she’ll start to get better and you can continue to help her bring her confidence back up. she’ll be back to the same old buddy in no time.

Answer #3

I think you should just let her heal its hard when you break up wit sumone you reely cared for she probably hasnt reely let it set in yet and shes proably just trying to deel wt it but it hurts to know someone you once cared for wont be there anymor so she just needs a minute to take it in she probably hasnt told you how shes feeling because shes probably not sure herself what shes feeling give her time and im sure she’ll get bak to herself

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