I dont know what I want and what im feeling :S

My boyfriend and I have been together for a week and 4 days now. For the first 5 days I was madly in love with him. he respects me and he never layed a finger on me. we are very close which is a good thing. the first few days we wer always talkin about being together forever and we’re all “I promise im gna hold you forever” and now im worried about it :S I thought I was positive but now I realised I dont know what I want or what im really feeling! every time I kiss him and hold him close I feel somethin but when im not near him, I dont feel anything! I want to love him but somethin deep down is telling me “no you dont like him” but then there’s somethin that tells me that I want him but the negative feeling is a lot stronger! he doesnt show me physically that he wants me but his words just dont get through to me. he doesnt come from behind me sometimes and holds me close. I donno whether its somethin his not doing or somethin im not :S recently I had a dream that he broke up with me and I woke up with my pillow drenched with tears! I dont know why but I think im afraid to lose him. a song called “when you kiss me” of shania twain described exactly how I felt the first few days with him. I donno how im gna make a decision, people have told me to give it some more time but at the moment I just cant stop thinking whether I do love him or not! please try and help me figure out what I really want and what im really feeling

Answer #1

Your problem is an easy one. You know when you first get a pet or toy, how much time you spend with it, playing and loving it. Then let a few days go by its like whoopy-do (so what). The newness of the relationship has worn off. The excite you felt when you first got with him has worn away (it happens to everybody). There’s nothing he can do, or you can do the get this back, when the newness goes -it goes. You can get the feelings back, but that will come with time. If I have to guess, I say you are infactuated with him and you DO NOT love him. And like-wise for him. I mean think about it- you guys have dated for a week and 4 days and you’re wondering why you’re not willing to take a bullet for him (aka love him). You don’t really know each other that well (do you?). I don’t know what’s the hurry but don’t love too fast, get to know a person. Just enjoy being with one another, act like best friends- there’s plenty of time for love when IT wants to appear and not a minute sooner.

Answer #2

wakingbeauty is right but talking with him will also help maybe u will discover something u never new b4.

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