I don't know whose right or if we're both right

I haven’t talked to my boyfriend in a day and a half because I left my phone home so I won’t constantly look at it wishing he would call more. He’s been calling me a lot and I call him back when I get home which is pretty late because of classes. So tonight, we finally talk and throughout our whole conversation, I accidentally keep slipping his name. I have been calling him by his first name for a while, sometimes I call him baby and other nick names but most of the time by his first name. He’s told me he wants to hear me call him baby instead, and I said I will. The thing is, I say his name without even realizing when I’m talking. According to him, tonight I said it about three times before he started saying “It’s on.” And I asked, “What is?” … “You keep calling me name when I’ve asked you over thirty times not to. I’m going to get you back; you won’t know how it’s coming or when it’s coming.” I ask him, “Will it hurt me?” His answer, “Maybe, maybe not. You’ll never know.” So for every time it slipped up in our conversation, he would say, “I’m bringing it # times as hard.” By the end of our conversation it was nine times. I can’t recall why we went silence for a bit, but that’s when he said I’m going to sleep. I quickly brought up the thing he kept talking about, and he said oh you’ll see. But that’s when it bothered me, why would he hurt me on purpose? I don’t say his name on purpose. It’s something I’ve been accustomed to and it’s taking a while to get use to not saying. Then he said “Yea but I’ve asked you over ninety times (exaggeration) and you still do it.” So I brought up, “How about when I told you to call me more since week one that school started? You haven’t! And I don’t say I’m going to get back at you and blah blah blah. I just keep asking you and asking you.” Then he said “You right… (Ugh, I dislike when he doesn’t talk as proper as he use to.) But you’re you and I’m me.” I was thinking, “Unbelievable!” He knew I was mad and all he did was say good night angel. I’m like whatever, bye. I didn’t want to end the conversation since we barely talked these past two days. I was hoping he didn’t want to either. But ever since he started college, he’s changed! He’s not the romantic sweetie he use to be. It frustrated me so much tonight I started crying. Mostly because we haven’t talked in a while and he acted as if it was any regular old day. He texted me shortly after that saying, “Thanks for making the conversation shorter. Bye baby, good night, sweet dreams. I love you, angel.” All I said was, “I don’t need your sarcasm. Bye.” I don’t know whose right or if we’re both right or anything about this. I just don’t know what to do.

Answer #1

this is a stupid argument to be having. honestly. sometimes we girls look too far into things and read beyond the truth. Your boyfriend isstupid for “Forcing” you to call him sweet nicknames. if you ask for special things then theyre not actually that special when you get them. it’s hard to date someone when theyre away at college. I would take a break. if he lives with room mates he doesnt wanna be saying lovey dovey crap on the pghone..

Answer #2

ok…this is comming from a guy…personaly he sounds like a dick BUT I dont know him and he could b Mr. Right…but he threatens you when you dont call him sweet little names…He’s going to get you back and crap…he sounds like a little kid that needs to grow up. yea…dont get me wrong it would kinda make me feel distant for my girl to call me Greg instead of babe but to have contunious arguements and it get him to want to do you harm whether its phisical and/or emotional sounds like He’s got serious insecurity issues…but thats just what I think but what do I know…lol. good luck I hope I helped…fun mail me if ya got any Q.s

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