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I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM

I JUST BROKE UP WITH MY BOYFRIEND BECAUSE HE WASN’T TREATING ME RIGHT…READ MY PAST QUESTIONS YOU WILL UNDERSTAND THE WHOLE STORY, WELL ANYWAYS I CANT GET HIM OUT OF MY HEAD, I MISS HIM OR I THINK I MISS HIM, IM TEMPTED TO CALL HIM AND TELL HIM I MISS HIM AND I want to SEE HIM BUT I FEEL IF THAT HAPPENS IT MIGHT MAKE HIM THINK IM SAYING IT WAS OK FOR HIM TO BE TREATING ME LIKE SHIT AND IM JUS GUNNA GET HURT AGAIN, ANY IDEALS?

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Answer #1

Breathe….. Don’t call him. Leave him be. Focus on you. Focus on your daughter. Their are things in this life that are larger than us. Not that relationships are not important. But you really need to get a hold of who you are and try not to define yourself through this guy. Once you do, then you can date whoever you want and you will make the right decisions. You won’t have to ask us all for this advice. And instead you will be giving advice from a powerful place rather than from a depressive place that saps your power.

Sorry I am married to a therapist so I tend to spout out things like I know them myself. I have had to hear it for the past six years now though so I do think that I am right. Just as the others on this site are right in trying to help someone who tells us is suffering. They are empowering themselves and attempting to empower you to become a stronger community that can overcome tyranny, oppressiveness, and sadistic relationships. We all just want to get along =] Love yourself and set a good role model for you child. We are all pulling for you.

Answer #2

well , i tottaly know what your going threw my bofriend treats me like the world but he gets so jelous i have NO guys friends at all, cause he wont let me. and he can be quite rude and selfish but if your thinking about him so much , maybe you should call him up and tell him how ur feeling , if he understands really well hes a keeper if not , then he wasnt worth it.

Answer #3

You don’t deserve to be treated like crap. Find someone who will treat you right. There ARE good guys out there who’ll treat you like a queen. If you call him and tell him that you miss him and all he’s just gonna think that he can get away with treating you like that, and that you’ll just keep coming back for more. Don’t put yourself through that. I’ve been there; it’s definitely not worth it. I wish you the best.

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