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How can I reach an orgasm?

im writing for answers, I’ve tried quite a bit to get an orgasm, but nothing even works, I’ve had an ex boyfriend finger me and he was too rought and it was painfull and hardly enjoiable, I had to fake.. I felt pretty bad about faking but I’ve never had a real orgasm bofor. I get fed up cus I try for ages and I get nothing. I need advice. I dont really wanna use any objects. just myself.. please help me.

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Answer #1

well why dont you just use objects because they really help and you dont have to buy them it can just be an electrical toothbrush or just get a pencil and use your own hand to vibrate it about ir anything at all tbh anything that suits you. or just stick your fingers up lmaoo. Hope this helps xD

Answer #2

Best thing ever! Invest at a drugstore one of those [muscle] massager thingies! And some damn good batteries! Clue: the four prongs can be made wider, or smaller [theres 3 settings]. However, the top, where the batteries are, fits perfectly down there, and the more pressure, the better. But using it repeatedly can cause discomfort. I was home alone once, I used it once every hour, and each time I came stronger and stronger. And I avoided the discomfort. (Electric toothbrushes are great too) It does make minimal noise (massager) so muffle it with blankets if you’re not alone. Or shower!!! (Not waterproof- so not a bath) ps, use on the clit!

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