How can I be safe while being pregnant at 14?

my boyfriend and i have just found out that i am pregnant and well we both want to keep the child but i dont know what to do in the mean time.. like how do i be safe while being pregnant and what is the best thing for me to do.. i cant tell my parents / dad cause he will flipp out at me and my boyfriend.. i dnt know what i am supposed to do.. please help???

Answer #1

well, youre going to have to tell your parents sometime, so you might as well get it over with. its your decision to keep the baby, but make sure you weigh your decisions. for example, do you have enough money to raise a child? can the dad pay child support? where are you going to go to school after you have it?

Answer #2

The best thing for you to do is start with prenatal care ASAP. Which means you’ll probably have to tell your parents so you can see a doctor. You need to start making plans now. There is a lot of responsibility with a baby.

Answer #3

Yea i agree u will have 2 tell ur parents theres no way u can hide it 4 long especially if ur gona keep it. is there any 1 u can talk 2 that u feel close 2 ? i have had a babii girl recently so if u want and other advise just gimme a buzz kk :D

Answer #4

There is no way to hide something like that from your parents. Your only 14 i would tell them ASAP! And think about keeping it first a baby is A LOT of hard work. Life isnt just about you anymore, but your child. You have to work, cant hang with your friends all the time (unless you pay a babysitter or take the baby out with you), but then still. I would really think about it. Do you have money saved up? Do you really want your child living pay check to pay check?? Is the father going to be supportive??? Hope this helps & good luck!

Answer #5

you should just really think about this first.

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