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I’m a 15 years old boy who adores a girl but I’m shy of going and starting a conversation with her. I’m not confiedent, I always think that she is going to refuse me and go tell her freinds about me and make a bad publicity of me in the whole school and of course you know how teenages enjoy romurs about other people. I want to know how to impress her and how to go to her, I would prefer to know if that doesn’t work for her what shall I do , shall quit so dosen’t feel that I’m a stakker or shall I try later. How honest should I be in the beginning, and how shall I make her open her heart to me. And how do I know how she is thinking about me and how do I know that if she loves me or not.

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Answer #1

well i dont think you love her but just talk to her and if shes sweet shell give you a chance and just dont be around her and be funny,girls like funny guys. and if you have a class with her or next to her, walk her to class or try to go somewhere with her.like the movies

Answer #2

hey man… i know what you are going through. I went through it my self. you see, what you gotta do is not to worry about impressing her. Sure, it would be nice if you impress her. But still, don’t worry about it. Just go and introduce yourself, and be yourself. And don’t worry about asking her out right at the start, become friends. You see, I already told you I had this problem. So what I did was introduced myself to this girl that I liked. We became friends. We were friends for about a year. Now we go out, and it seems we are perfect for each other. But enough about me. Just introduce yourself to the girl. Become friends, and when you become great friends, and feel that vibe between you, ask her out. And if she says no, you’ll still be friends. And maybe later on, you’ll ask her out again and she might say yes.

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