how to become friends with her again?

Hey,

theres this girl I went out with back in 2007 and I know its been a while but I still kind of have feelings for her… our relationship back then didnt last very long but it was long enough to start being REALLY in love with her. and one day she breaks up with me because she just wants to stay friends (thats what she said) And here’s the problem (I guess it was my fault, mainly) - I made the mistake of refusing to stay friends with her after the break-up… she wanted to stay friends and texted me saying “why do you keep ignoring and avoiding me at school?” and I just never responded to any of those text msg’s she sent… because I was real angry and bitter about the break-up and wanted to show her how pissed off I was with her decision to break it off with me sad

so its been almost 2 years now and I havent talked to her since the break up (I think I may have said hi once after we broke up but it was a really “sour and bitter” HI from me, and that was it). we broke up around April 2007 and haven’t talked or seen her since. (I finished school in 2008 and completely lost contact with her, deleted her MSN because I was so angry with her…) but now I regret it!!! I regret not responding to her text msgs and deleting her msn and just regret not being friends with her after the break-up sad what do I do to become friends with her again??? to reunite the friendship that was so strong before we even started going out… (god, that was probably the best time of my life, right before the relationship started, we had a really sweet friendship growing).

so how do I become friends with her once again? I know how to get her msn back and where to find her during school hours (my best friend still happens to have her MSN on his contacts list (thank god) and that ex-girlfriend still goes to the school I went to, so its not hard to find her again) but how do I reunite the both of us again as friends? without her being mad or anything (I doubt she will be mad…) but yeah… now that you guys know the story, please help!

thanks, Mikey.

Answer #1

you should probably go meet up with her by contacting her and I think you should tell her exactly what you wrote ..about how you regreted not being friends with her and that you now feel sorry for being “sour and bitter” tell her that you really enjoyed being friends with her and hope to continue your friendship. just because you guys didnt last as a good couple, doesnt mean you guys still can’t be good friends good luck :]

Answer #2

I think you should start by saving her again on MSN and you have to talk to her first and say how are u..make a conversation with her then be like we should meet up sometimes and hang out if your free or something… I hope this helps:)

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