How to become friends with an ex?

how much time do guys need until there comfortable with an ex? how can I become a good friend with him?? how do I act around him? and how do I get him to actually want to be my friend without me begging?? I need help.

Answer #1

If you want to be friends with your ex in hopes of getting back together, then a friendship between exes will NOT work! Somewhere on the road of parting ways couples feel the need to promise to stay friends – which ultimately leads to more broken promises. relationships rarely see mutual breakups. One person is usually the heartbreaker, while the other mulls over the breakup and pain for weeks, even months. It’s never easy to break up with someone you’ve shared good times with (and even if they were bad times, they were still times ).

But, the person who does the breaking up feels like less of a bad guy by offering that sense of truce: “It’s not you, it’s me. We’ll still be friends, right?” This peace offering of friendship provides the dumper with the comfort of knowing they aren’t such a horrible person because they still want to be friends with their ex.

Unless the two of you were the best of friends before; both broke up on the same terms in a perfectly mutual breakup; both have no qualms about either of you seeing new people, and have both instilled a total honesty policy, better to leave the friendship behind… along with the memories.

Move on with your life, meet new people and turn a fresh new page!

Answer #2

meand my ex jst started talking again like after a year. and it was really hard cause we went out in the summer and had to go to school together and it was hard for me cause I really liked him and I still do and he knows it and it hasnt affected our newly found friendship..he even texted me the other day saying hey babe which is kinda strange..lol

Answer #3

IS ALWAYS NICE TO STAY FRIEND WITH YOUR EX IF YOU BOTH LEFT IN GOOD TERMS.BUT SOMETIMES BOYS ARE SO IGNORENT THAT when THEY BRACK UP THEY WANT TO SAY THINGS TO MACK YOU LOOK BAD. BUT THOSE HU DO THAT ARE FACK AND NEED TO LERN MORE OF GIRLS.THAY ARE KIDS HU STILL NEED MORE TO GROW UP.

Answer #4

man its hard for “us” guys to become friend withour exes. I mean things are not the same anymore and it just simply feels “wierd”. but every guy is different and it depends what situation you guys were in. I mean it took me a while for me to actually become somewhat friend to my exes. but you gotta tell him and say that you want to be friend with him.

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