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How to act around my ex boyfriend?

my ex boyfriend and I were together for nearly a year then he broke up with me. we were both torn by this but he soon moved on, one of the reasons for him breaking up with me is because of the age difference of 4 years. I see him nearly every day with his now girlfriend who is a year younger than me. it breaks my heart to see them together and now have a lot of trouble with his new girlfriend. I dont know what to say or how to act around them because I always feel im being watched and judged by them.when hes not with her he will talk to me and ask me how I am and we will have a laugh and joke but then when shes there he cant bring himself to look at me?

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Answer #1

Well if you still have feelings for him then you need to become his best friend if not that just become his friend and if things go bad with his girlfriend then you will be the one he turns to but when you become his friend let him know that you will be there for him if he needs someone to talk to talk to him every now and then but don’t seem to desperate or needy, if you want to get over him ignore talking to him when you see him leave or act like he isn’t there, when you do talk to him he will bring up other girls or doing things involving other girls just to see if it will make you jealous or to see what you will say about it but if you start acting like you don’t like him anymore then he will completely move on but if you act like you ar ecompletely on love with him and you seem desperate then he will be thinking now I remember why I dumped her. wish you the best of luck!! = p

Answer #2

You have to move on!! Try and stay away from him if possible. If you know hes gonna be where you are>DONT GO THERE! DONT CALL HIM, DONT TALK TO HIM, DONT THINK ABOUT HIM, DONT DO ANYTHING THAT WILL REMIND YOU OF HIM!! He has moved on, you should too. It doesnt matter that he will only talk to you when his gf isnt around. He broke up with you, and he has a new gf now! You need to accept that and get on with you life!! Ive been where you are! The sooner you get him OUT of your life, the better life will start to look!!! Ex’s are ex’s to make our lives miserable. Show him your better than that!!! You dont need to act any different just because he is your EX!!!!!!

Answer #3

Most likely, he’s just trying to keep his girlfriend’s feelings in mind … how do you think she would feel if he was always looking at you? Accept this for what it is - history - and move on. Your ex doesn’t owe you any time.

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