how do people get over something like this, because I dont know how?

if you are still thinking about your ex love, chances are you’re not over him or his death. The only way to truly get over him is to give yourself some time to grieve. New boyfriends is not what you really need right now. That is really sad, but in situations like this time is the only thing that can help. Tell your boyfriend you need some time to yourself and if he truly loves you he will wait until you are ready for a relationship.

girl you need to put of yourself. you need to be more mature. I know how it hurts when you lose someone like that. when the person dies. he died for some reason. you would have lost him anyways and anytime so just put in your mind that there is someone there for you and maybe you have heard this by many people but you should also believe it. what is done can’t be undone and you have to accept this situation. you need to actually move on and be that new person. you know that as we live we learn from things that happen to us. I know you can do it you just need to have a positive mind. and do things that are good for you. maybe you should try to do some exercise or talk to your close friends. really and truly it will take some time for you to forget about him but you will manage. I don’t want to talk about God bcaz maybe you don’t believe in him and I don’t know. but he has helped me a lot to be strong. because of him I have learnt to let go form the past. the past is like a poison and you should not get drown in it. I got to go and keep my words. let go of whats not yours!

Much love

Nelly Nice to meet you

well I’ve only been with him for like 5-months, but my ex died like 2yrs ago, this march will be 3yrs, but I miss him and never stop thinking about him.

And you have a new boy friend already?