how do I tell my teacher that im being abused?

well im only 13 and im being abused by my father. and my vochal teacher knows that something is going on at home and I dont know how to tell her.shes always asking me if things are alright and I just say yes and walk away but things arent okay.I trust her more than anyone in the world but im still scared to tell her.can anyone help me out?

Answer #1

you should definitely tell your teacher, a few years ago my mom was drunk all the time and even though she was still married to my dad, she brought her boyfriends home. I wouldn’t be myself at school, and I stopped doing my work. Well my teacher was trying to help, she even cornered me in the classroom while we were going out for recesses, and I had my friend get her away. Point is I’m afraid of my feelings I didn’t want to be known as the baby or anything like that, but now I wish I had opened up, and gotten some help. So please don’t make a mistake like I did and talk to your teacher you will feel so much better

Answer #2

I am so sorry you are going though this,Please talk to your teacher the school will help you.My granddaugher who is 8 told her teacher that she and her 4 yr old brother were being abused by their moms new boyfriend.They made sure the kids got help.When your being hurt you have to tell so it will stop.It is not your fault this has happened and I know it hurts even more when it is your dad.Please talk to the teacher you will feel so much better.my grandaughter did ,and the abuse has stopped.

Good Luck and please please talk to your teacher they will believe you!

Answer #3

oh my goodness girl you need to tell her cause things could definently get worse. write a note, pull her aside and talk to her or something. or wait till the class is empty and tell her. either way please tell her.

Answer #4

wait till no ones in the class if you want you can write it down in a journal or sumtin and show it to her pretending its a note and she’ll tell you to meet with her after class…if its only your teacher you trust then ask for advice for her…if you can or are able to have a phone on you and ring childline for some better advice and help hope your okay whenever im upset I listen to michael jackson ‘ keep the faith ‘ the song really helps and boosts up your confidence its really inspiring and helps so much im really sorry about your father and urself I hope my advice helps :(

Answer #5

Is it carnal or physical abuse? If carnal, can you not ask your mother for help, if this is not possible, write a note to your teacher “My father is abusing me I NEED HELP!” Please bear in mind a teacher is likely to bring in a doctor to prove this by physical examination. You could tell a priest of whatever faith you may belong to. If physical, it is not good to complain to the teacher, but if could imperil vital organs it may be advisable.

Answer #6

well I think you should tell her

Answer #7

Can yew go to my profile and answer my question I need some more advice

Answer #8

Well if yew are being abused then yes you really should tell someone then maybe she can help you out or whatever …maybe she can relate to you ya never know if itsserious enough why haver you called the cops? Being abuused is very serious and your father probably needs some help..
I need some advice too go to my profile and help answer my question..? Thnx I hope this helped

Answer #9

Just tell her. A person who is considerate enough to ask you how you’re doing on a daily basis would not turn down your cry for help. Believe me, when you tell people it makes it a whole lot better just to know there is someone on your side. She seems like the type of person that would listen, so the next time that she asks you if everything is alright, say no and explain. Just get it off your chest.

Answer #10

You need to tell somebody. If you trust her then after class ask her if you can talk to her, im sure she’ll say yes. Sit down with her and tell her that things arent good at home and your not being treated the right way (abused) She’ll proably talk to you about it for a few, tell you its goona be okay, and she might suggest you go to talk to the guidance counseler, or school social worker. Then from there on they may call the cops for you, or tell you to do so.

Dont worry about it, it will be hard to bring up at first, but you will be glad you did. She is obviosuly a genuinly caring person, and im sure she’ll be glad to help.

I wish you the best of luck, if you need anybody to talk to to, you can talk to me, :)

shay<3

Answer #11

tell someone better it gets ot of hand like my father did to me

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