How do I tell my parents?

Hey Their,

 Well I'm always answering questions on Fun Advice.com so it would be nice enough if you guys helped me out today.

So I been dating My Bestfriend for the past year and one month and this past year my mom has not found out well techanclly she knows because shes my mother but me and my mom dont really have a close relation ship liek other daughters and mothers do recently we have been taling and stuff real close but I don’t whan’t to illusionate my self && get all happy because when that usually happens we fall apart well anyways its not easy for me to tell my mom that I have a BYFRIEND and onestly I dont know how to tell her any advice oh and plus im 16 lol.

Answer #1

I think you will be ok if you tell her. She is your mom and no matter how close you are or arent she loves you. I am sure she would much rather hear it from you that you have a boyfriend rather then from someone else. Plus you say your sixteen, telling your mom you have a boyfriend is great! Now a days girls that are sixteen are trying to figure out how to tell their parents that she is pregnant or something, so I am pretty sure your mom wouldn’t mind. Its only a boyfriend. Just casually bring it up and maybe ask her how old she was when she had her first boyfriend or something along those lines that way you can work it in that you have one and then you guys are also bonding more by getting to know a little more about her and how it was when she was your age :) I hope I have helped one way or another :)

Answer #2

ok I had this problem awhile ago… I promised my girlfriend at the time not to tell her parents because they were old fashioned and teachers so they expected a lot. well we were the best friends nobody had… sleepovers all the tym hangin out everyday the whole thing… well one day I just texted her mom and said… I like your daughter and wolud love if you allowed us to date because we are best friends and you guys (referin to her parents) know me pretty well” couple days later her mom said she would like wutever makes her daughter happy but she wants us to be honest with them… see parents dont like that their daughter is dating because its a pride thing… but if your honest with each other and tell them that you like a guy and want them to meet him most parents are actually surprised and would be willing to meet the guy hope I helped :)

Answer #3

Okay I know it may seem hard to tell your mom that you have a boyfriend but once you do it wont be as bad as it sounds.. just go up to her one day and just start a casual conversation.. then bring up something about boys and then say by the way I have a boyfriend.. even though y’all aint close it shouldnt be that hard and I’m sure your mom wouldnt care she might even be happy for you and y’all might get closer cause y’all might have more to talk bout.. hope I helped:)

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