How do I move on from loving him?

So, There’s this boy that I really like, He’s like my best friend, and I have recently developed feelings for him. I told him face-to-face that I really liked him but he rejected me, and said that they weren’t real feelings. One of my best friends like him too, and they knew that I liked him before, and now everything’s getting really confusing. Everyday now I think about him and it really hurts, I feel really angry, and feel as if I just want to burst out crying. This isn’t one of those times when you think you like someone, and then you get over them. Honestly, this isn’t one of those times. I had a feeling that he really liked me too. I really don’t know what to do, and I randomly get sudden out-bursts of temper, one minute im happy, and the next, It feels as if I want to cry. Please help me, I dont know how to get over him.

Answer #1

Try writing out a letter to him saying how you feel. Writing really helps get your feelings organized sometimes. Don’t give the letter to him, just use it as a guide to help you know what to say. It really sucks when things like this happen, but don’t get too upset. Rejection is a unfortunate part of life and working through it and dealing with it is really all you can do. Is it important to you to remain friends with him? In the end, friendship lasts longer and you’ll still be able to have fun with him. Sometimes it’s better to ignore the romantic feelings and just enjoy being with the person. Hope this helps…

Answer #2

If you want to get over him, just completely stop talking to him for a couple months..hang out with your friends sleep over there house and get your mind off of him…do things that make you feel good and just have fun..do constructive things for yourself and then you’ll see that you don’t need him..when a couple months pass by and you’ve been independent for awhile then you should start to talkin to him as a friend again.

Answer #3

WELL MAYBE you SHOULDN MAYBE ITS MENT TO BE DOES HE LIKE U BACK? OR DOES HE EVEN KNOW THAT you LIKE HIM IF NOT MAYBE you SHOULD TEL HIM I THINK THAT WOULD BE BEST

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