How do I know if we are dating or not?

Okay I have been talking to this guy since christmas break. And I really like him and he says he really likes me we would talk every day all day the whole christmas break and on new years eve he asked me so what would you call us and I said well I dont know what would you call us and he said you are perfect for me and I really like you but I wouldnt call you my girlfriend until we get to hang out so I said okay thats fine well we have hung out 4 times since then he goes to a different school than I do but we live in the same town I used to go to his school but I switched schools in seventh grade so I have a lot of friends at his school my friends at his school say that he says I am his girlfriend and when we hang out and my friends are with us they always say im his girlfriend and he does deny it but I am confused because he never asked me to be his girlfriend so are we going out or not? he acts like my boyfriend, he tells me he loves me, and wants to be with me all the time, and he misses me and things like that

Answer #1

okay I will lol but what makes me really nervous about it and when I am around him is that he is 16 and im 14. I don’t want to sound immature and weird if you know what I mean lol

Answer #2

no way, so does my boyfriend lol but good than you dont have to worry bout as much hurt if you get rejected but most likely itll be fine, let me know how it goes:D

Answer #3

haha I know what you mean, but like play it cool like if its a negative be all okay good or just sound smooth lol and no prob. you can ask me anything, I gotcho back:D

Answer #4

lol thanks.. and I think that would probably work cause he is a really sweet guy and cares about me a lot he doesnt do anything that makes me mad or that would upset me in anyway and he asks me if its okay before he does anything.

Answer #5

just look him straight in the eye and say ‘do you want to have a relationship or not?’ and than he can eather so no or we ARE in a relationsip.. you know?? hope this helps!

Answer #6

yeah.. im thinkin you two are going out but hes too imiture to relize it..you two should work its out face-to-face.. hope this hellpss!!

Answer #7

thanks for your advice you have been a lot of help. I just don’t want to look retarded when I ask him lol

Answer #8

thanks for the answer. and I just dont know how to ask him. I dont want to just say hey are we going out or what..

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