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How do I know if he really loves me?

So I’ve known this guy for almost a year (in january) we’ve had our up’s and down’s but I can honestly say I love him. I don’t know if he just says it, or if he means it too. Me and him are a long story so this won’t really even seem like much. Like when he texts me he randomly says ily, or I effing love you babee or something. He calls me babe a lot too. And he also calls me cute all the time like ‘your so cute’. We dated for a while, and I waited two months for him to ask me back out again, well I know he’s real, but I don’t know him in real life, but we still talk all the time, and he’s really shy and won’t call me, so I said I’ll tell him yes or no when he does, and he never did, but then a friend I used to talk to, started talking to me again, and I fell for him too, but after saying yes to ben, it didn’t seem right, and I’ve been trying to break up with ben but he’s not on, and chriss, the one that I knew originally, seemed sad, and always said well you have ben or something, and like he’ll talk to other girls and be like flirty or something and it makes me wonder if he actually loves me, or he’s just saying it.

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Answer #1

And most likely if he flirts with other girls and he knows you know about it..he’s testing your reaction to see if you really care about him or mabye he is just naturally flirty and it’s his way of being nice..if he tells you he really cares about you he probably means it! but what really matters is if he shows it through his actions and not just his words

Answer #2

he has problems stay away from him I can’t tell you this enough..I didnt listen to my friends when they told me this and bad things happened..your are way better off without him

ask him if he rememebers kelsey..( see if he makes up a story or tries to brush it off..that is his way of pretending it’s a lie

Answer #3

he has problems stay away from him I can’t tell you this enough..I didnt listen to my friends when they told me this and bad things happened..your are way better off without him

Answer #4

If his name is ben edelbach then your in trouble..I know three girls that he has messed around with including me and trust me girl hes trouble!!! he broke all three of our hearts and cheated on us with eachother at the same time..so if im thinking about the right guy STOP TALKING TO HIM NOW AND FORGET HIM! HE WILL JUST MAKE YOU CRY AND HES PROBABLY CHEATING ON YOU RIGHT NOW!

Answer #5

in the last one im talking about chriss haha..theres some advice for ya :D

Answer #6

I dont know, I didn’t ask… Is the Ben You’re talking about Thirteen? And live in Pennsylvania?

Answer #7

Who? Ben? Im breaking up with Ben… For Chriss. Reread it. XD

Answer #8

but was that his last name?

Answer #9

he’s a freak

Answer #10

whats ben’s last name? because I might know him…

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