how do I decide who to pick... stuck in a love rectangle?

well girl.. the problem is you have to think about who your truly choosing. for if you go and wait for the 2nd guy.. you will also have to take in his babys moma… for like it or not them two are always going to be united by their baby!!!… also is pretty messed up he hasnt already stood up to her and told her to back off.. unless he is afraid she would take away his visiting rights just cause he is with you. and then its more understandable for he is risking seeing his son by being with you! which I would recommend telling him to go to court if he hasnt already and get his visitation rights. so she cant threaten him with that. also by being with that guy >> you become a part of that babys life!!.. for when he has the baby over >you will most likely be there. so yare you ready to become a part of that childs life –>thats a big commitment!!

second thing is your best friend I believe alwaysleft b/c he knew how he felt for you and was trying to hide his feelings. but now that he has finally open up >> you are risking the most important thing>>> you twos friendship!! for if your relationship goes sour so will your friendship!! most people I know who have dated a friend in the process has lost the friend and/or the friendship was never the same!!

I recommend to follow your heart but also use your head!! and w/e happens your bff should be there for you regardless b/c thats why bff are suppose to do.. if he doesnt now you will know that all he ever wanted was to pretend to be your friend o he could later on become your boyfriend!!