how do I avoid sex with my boyfriend?

my boyfriend is pressuring me to have sex but I know that it will hurt so I’ve been putting it off weekend after weekend but he is getting annoyed but I really like him when he is not talking about sex but I dont want him to break up with me just because I wont have sex… help me I don’t know wht to do!!!

Answer #1

did everyone here avoid this person’s reasons for not wanting to have sex? ok, so it might hurt the first time and maybe the next, but do you think people have sex because it hurts and they secretly like pain?

that said..you’re kinda young so don’t do it

Answer #2

just say your on your period or your not ready, if he does really like you then he will except your decision :)

Answer #3

just tell him your not ready and if he really loves you he will wait until your ready but if he goes into a strop about it im sorry to say this but hes a d*ck and only after one thing., but surely if he really loves you he’ll wait hun

Answer #4

You are too young to have physical relations, if he insists he is not the right one for you. Tell him also 14 is too young for physical relations, you are not yet strong enough for childbearing, and your immune system has not yet developed to defend from the bacteria always transmitted in this act.

Answer #5

if hes right he wont. I was worried about that to because my boyfriend is 4 years older than me but he waited more than a year and until I was 17. you know you deserve better.

Answer #6

‘he is older than me and I know he is gonna want that… duh most guys do’

Yes. That is true. But what is not true is that all guys will pressure you into it. If you’re with a guy that respects you and cares about you, they will wait. Otherwise, you’ll sleep with him and he’ll leave anyways. This happens over and over, and yet for some reason girls dont seem to get it.

Answer #7

okay well you obviously think that he might break up with you because you won’t have sex with him. think bout it, that’s what he wants from you and he’ll act like he loves you for you but I guess not from your description. so if you won’t break up with him, next time he mentions it I would say, please stop trying to push me it’s annoying me and if you really want it so bad then go f* some other chick because I’m not ready!, say it firm not soft nor yelling then storm off. then maybe he’ll chase after you and he’ll be all I’m sorry (hopefully), then he won’t mention it. if he does say you have had enough and your done with im or say if you ask me one more time then we’re through and say that you’ll tell him when your ready in a firm voice again! if he doesn’t stop, you should move on (:

Answer #8

I think that you should talk to your boyfriend about this to explain your concerns. Perhaps understanding why you’re not willing to do it right now could help. Ignoring the issue or avoiding it won’t make it go away. All relationships, especially sexual ones, need a lot of communication to work.

If he breaks up with you because you won’t have sex with him, then he’s a jerk and you’re way better off without him. But you should definitely talk about it like a mature person. Otherwise you won’t get anywhere.

Answer #9

he is older than me and I know he is gonna want that… duh most guys do

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