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How do I ask my boyfriend if he is bored with us?

My boyfriend and I were kinda living life on the edge. He came to my house after I took my daughter to her dad’s at night, for school reasons, and we would have the best time. Now he pretty much stays at my house. He says he loves my daughter, which is no doubt, but I think it is to much because he has no children and the whole homework being a parent thing is a art that is overlooked by most. Anyway unless you want me to go into details of how it was and how it has become, all I know is that we go to bed and it’s not with sex and it’s usually either I am tired or he is. Screw that! I do not want to pressure on him but if he is gonna be in my life my daughter is a huge part if he cannot stay awake after that point then…But I want him to and there is no doubt he and my daughter enjoy eachothers company but after she leaves he just wants to go to bed. ???

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Answer #1

Maybe you can try and talk to him about it. :) sounds like a miscommunication and also sounds like he is understanding..I don’t know

Answer #2

I too think that you should talk with him about it. Cause you do seem rather worried about it, and keeping that kind of thing inside is often not the best of choice I think. Just try to have a relaxed conversation about it with him, not in a confronting way, or else it could work out into a fighting n’ doubt neither of you would want that.

Ask him how he is feeling, or if something is on his mind. If he denies it, then try again just talking with him, or tell you need to talk with him, cause you clearly feel something is wrong and if it isn’t with him, then it must be you. It could be that it would get him to open up a bit more, specially if he really cares about you… if he is keeping silent to save you the burden, you must hint him it’s a burden that he is silent about it, without confrontation.

hope it’ll work out between you and that you’ll feel like the burden will be lifted somehow :)

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