How could I find the right girl?

Hey there, I know at the age of fifteen the chances of a fifteen year old finding the “right girl” or aka the love or their life is very rare. I mean I know its possible because I’ve heard many stories of teen couples growing up together and eventually getting married and live happily ever after. But I just cant seem to find her. Now, the thing I’ve heard from most people is that you should not go find them and let them find you. I dont know if this is really true but it seems to work for most people. I just cant stand being alone and when Im not Im always ending up in a situation that eventually gets me and her to the point of breaking up. As for a lot of people on the earth I can see that this happens a lot. And so point being to all of this how can I find the right girl. Please answer honestly :) and thank you for your time.

Answer #1

At 15 you shouldn’t be worried about this. Just have fun date girls. And maybe you’ll meet her if you stop worrying about it.

Answer #2

you cant look for her you have to wait for her

Answer #3

well I guess I’ll just tell you my story… I’m only 16 but when I was 11 I moved from a private school to a public school and it was very difficult… one of my friends, Bethany, had a boyfriend named Andy… now I didn’t really like any of the other guys there, but I was jealous of Bethany… I really liked Andy but I didn’t say anything because he was with her… well last year we were in 10th grade and Andy and Bethany had since broken up, but before I could even think about trying for Andy, he would have a new girlfriend… so I pretty much just gave up and forgot about it because I never thought he liked me anyway… I would always see him with his girlfriends and I would be so jealous of them but I just put it in the back of my head and didn’t say anything… none of my friends even knew I liked him… that is not until last year… we had a couple classes together and we started flirting a little bit… I didn’t think it was because he liked me, I just figured I was a girl so he was flirting with me… well the end of the year was coming around and he asked me for my number… I gave it to him and we started texting… we would text during school and after… it was getting down to the last month of school and one of his friends asked me if I would ever date Andy… I said maybe… so then he started saying things like “you should date Andy” and I would say “Andy has a girlfriend”… so in about the last week of school I found out that Andy would be quitting school and getting his G.E.D… and just as well I would be moving in with my dad and I wouldn’t be going to the same school… so it was now or never… I think it was the second to last day of school that Andy broke up with his girlfriend… he asked me out on a date and a few days after school got out we went on our first date… the next day I went to his house to hang out and he kissed me… today was our 6 month anniversary… now granted, we are still only 16 and 17, but he is the love of my life and I am his… we plan to get married and move in with each other as soon as I turn 18, and we are planning on being together forever… I suppose you just hae to go about your life and wait until it happens… you can’t be looking for it, or expecting it, you just let it happen the way it’s supposed to… Andy and I liked each other for 5 years before either of us said anything… and now we’ve been together for 6 months… good luck…

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