How can I get my ex back?

Even though you are no longer with your ex, sleeping with another guy when you supposedly still love him, is the reason he doesnt want you back! Also, lying is a BIG no, no!! Understandable, because my ex did the very same thing you did. I didnt want him anymore after that. If he truly still loved me, he wouldnt have had s*x with someone else! We all handle things differently. I am a strong person, and i want to find a guy who knows the true meaning of love! I wont settle for anything less then what i deserve! Ever heard the saying, “you made your bed, now lie in it”. Meaning>You made a decision and now must accept its consequences. Sometimes we just have to learn things the hard way! You cant get someone back, when they dont want to come back. Your better off moving on, and just accept it as a loss!

Dear ifckdup, Sorry, there isn’t going to be a way to change his mind. He has it made up that it’s over and you’re going to have to respect his wishes. Trying to get him back will only make things worse for you. He, with time may think differently but if you continue to try to get him back he will only see you as a burden and pest. This would not help your cause. Time to face the fact that he may have moved on in his life and you will have to do the same thing. It’s all part of living and learning the hard way. If the relationship was good in the first place you wouldn’t have broken up. Breaking up is a sign it’s broken and in many cases cannot be repaired. Sue…good luck