Housemate Troubles

Hey There,

Thank you for taking the time to read my question.

I am in a bit of a situation, currently I have been living with housemates for well over a year. It’s been a real eye opener for me, living in shared accommodation. Well, the one thing I have learnt, you can only really rely on yourself. But anyway getting to the story…

I have been with my housemates for well over a year, I was the first one in there so I payed the bond. A few months later, my house mates moved in. Things were goin’ pretty good for the most of last year…. Accept for their cats! They are vermin! I know I know, it’s not the cats fault but it really gets on my nerves when there are seven in the house and they bloody stink!! Oh along with a blue tongue lizard. (2 Adult cats, 2 cats from a previous litter (rubbish)

Since I was the first one in there, my name went on the bills. Payments have gradually been kept up to date, but now they have not been. I have told my house mates many times I need this cash! They have outstanding bills since October last year!! I told them I am moving out this year, and I expect my bond before I move out. (That’s over $800… including the bills it’s a substantial amount) As if I am going to see it any time soon!! I am just sick of it and need to live by myself! But I do not want to lose out on my money! I mean it’s the frigen principle!!

But I was thinking to myself, maybe its best if I just cut my losses, pay the outstanding bills and get the flock outta there. I mean, if I did I would loose a hell of allotta money but in the long run it seems worth it.

When I come home I am angry. I try to escape reality by going out partying hard on the weekends, but reality comes back to bite me when I arrive home drunk and its just boiling in my head. I am sick of my so called friends takin me for a ride, that’s why I need to move out.

What should I do? Any suggestions? Should I just cut my losses and move out?

Any info or suggestions is greatly appreciated! Thanks again for taking the time to read this. Your input it highly appreciated.

Regards, Mike.

Answer #1

That sounds more like a court battle but if you don’t have anything in writing for your housemates then don’t expect any type of payment because I doubt it’ll hold over in court unless you get a really honorable judge and they just like you out of nowhere.

OK back to reality. I would say cut the bills and accept your losses because money won’t necessarily bring you happiness but moving out to a new start will. Plus you don’t have any other responsibilities except for yourself so you can easily always restart.

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