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Hooking up leading to a relationship

ok, so every single relationship I’ve been in started with me hooking up with the person at least once, then they asked me out. All the relationships failed miserably, probably because the guys only saw physical things in it first, emotions second. Is this smart? Or should I just wait to be in a relationship and then kiss the person?

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Answer #1

You just need to take things slow and don’t do anything with the person if you aren’t in a relationship with them. If you hook up with someone first I think it shows that you are easy and you just get used. Get to know the person really good, get involved in a relationship with them and just go from there.

Answer #2

Forgot to mention… I personally don’t see anything wrong with a little peck on the lips when you are getting to know the person, it shows feelings.

Answer #3

wo wo wo, coming from a guy thats not the way to go. Because ya, thats how the relationship will end every time. The only girl I hooked up with first before going out, I only saw the physical part. Because she was hot as hell. But I treated her like sh*t, I feel really bad now because she was a good girl. But ya, putting out quick might get a guy to date you, but he’s not going to think much of you. And thats important

Answer #4

your right, Im sick of guys using me, so im going to change that. thanks so much:)

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