Should I be doing something back to him?

Being 18, he most likely wants it all, but there is no rule that says just because he is your boyfriend you have to give him anything he wants. You both seem to be rushing things a bit too fast. Its only been alittle over a month. Spend time strengthening more important areas of a relationship, like communication for one. The physcial part should come much later. *If your boyfriend is in a hurry for sex, that is a sign that he won’t treat you respectfully afterward. You need to inform him sweetly, but firmly, that you will not be rushed into doing anything so major.

*Don’t let him talk you out of what you know is right. If you make out with someone, no matter how far you go, it does NOT mean that you have to go all the way.

*Tell him how you feel about him, and be honest. If you don’t feel close enough to him yet, say so. If you really love him but aren’t interested in doing more, say so.

*Don’t be embarrassed or think you will sound immature by saying no to sex. Choosing not to have sex is VERY mature. It would be immature to be pressured into something you don’t want!

Stages in a healthy relationship look like this: Attraction toward one another Friendship Dating Taking things slowly Getting to really know one another’s likes and dislikes, values and value systems Getting to know each other’s friends and family Getting to know each other’s interests. Do you have enough in common by now to see if the relationship grows further? If so, continue to take things slowly: No sex! Remember, having sex with dating partners is not practicing for marriage, it is practicing for divorce. Enjoy minimal physical touches: hand-holding, light kissing, arms around each other, hugs, looking into each others eyes. Enjoy the chemistry without the sex.

It seems he only wants one thing. Hes telling you he would never pressure you to do anything, then why is he moving so fast? Dont listen to what hes telling you, because its what hes showing you that really matters. A guy will say ANYTHING, and EVERYTHING to get what he wants. I live by these words>”Actions speak louder than words”. Hes going to keep trying to go as far as you will let him. Maybe you need to “test” him. See if its really YOU he wants, by not letting him get physical ALL the time. Find something else to occupy your time, going for walks, talking, and just getting to know him on a social level. See how long he can go without putting his hands on you.

any advice on what he could possibly try on me next? I mean I know what I’m doing when it comes to relationships but I don’t always know what could happen next because there are so many possibillities. any advice at all is appreciated…